Reader Question:

Hi David,

I am 60 yrs . old, very healthier, very effective, and a really nice lady. I’d a very cool marriage for over three decades. We joined when I separated, had a couple of times (they certainly were awful), immediately after which one jumped up. I’ve outdated him on / off for 2 decades. He informed me the guy really likes me personally, but the guy disappears constantly. We see him for several times, after which he’s eliminated for 2 to three days. He was hitched for 3 decades and has three kids (just like myself) and claims he’s commitment issues and is watching a therapist regarding it. Their wife cheated on him in which he has actually drug and alcoholic beverages dilemmas.

Ought I look at this single mom dating younger man to-be toxic? If he contacts myself once more (that we think he will probably), must I simply tell him to not ever get in touch with me any longer, or must I only let him know i like getting with him but am leaving my choices prepared for time other people?

-Nancy (Ca)

David Wygant’s response:

Should you take into account this person toxic?  No.

I’d give consideration to him becoming a booty call.

That is all he is.  He’s a booty phone call.

The guy doesn’t want to commit.  He is picking out plenty excuses, and yet he likes to appear over and trick about.

When men does that, all he is doing is utilizing you as an intimate spouse.

Confront him about it if you would like, but a person like him can make right up some form of tale not to end up being take off sexually.

Very progress and  discover someone who is deserving of you.

The amount of time you have been wasting considering him and being with him is actually time you’ll be meeting another man.

Benefit from the process!